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Umami
20th November 2011, 08:26 PM
I believe Margo may have prefaced this week in some detail :) She was a large part of my wedding week.

I've actually originally typed most of this up on my wedding blog, which you can check out here. (http://tpsweddingventure.blogspot.com/) I'm going to break it up the same way I did on the blog and simply, slowly, update day by day. For background Pete and I went on a cruise in 2009 to get a feel for places in the Caribbean, we visited Jamaica, Grand Cayman and Cozumel. We didn't actually stay in Cozumel we did the Tulum ruins tour. When we walking around after the official tour we both said "wouldn't it be nice to be married here." In 2010 Pete proposed and we started working on getting married in Tulum.
We ended up married in Soliman Bay for a couple of reasons, but made use of a bunch of Tulum folks, so it all works out :) In the fall of 2010 I contacted Destination Scout, LLC. (http://destinationscout.com/) and immediately felt I had found my wedding coordinator. I had been chatting with other folks in the Tulum area, which was a benefit for them, since Destination Scout works out of the US. However, Malisa was responsive, had an attack plan, up front about her costs and for a modest fee would set up appointments for your scouting trip. I agreed to that, I mean that was definitely a no brainer, and in the end we saw a ton of the area. We also got to meet Margo.

Over a 5 day trip we had a tour of the Sian Ka'an (which now that everyone's been to the area they would enjoy), Tulum, and Soliman Bay. We had originally chosen El Pez as our wedding reception site, but the owners of El Pez were not clear on what direction they wanted their property to go nor were they comfortable dealing with a someone who has Celiac's (Pete). Celiac's is a gluten intolerance, so Pete cannot have any wheat flour, barely, rye, semolina, spelt, any relative or protein homologue of wheat. Our second choice was actually one of the houses in Soliman Bay. All of our guests (or folks who were supposed to be guests) voted for air conditioning despite Pete and I working very hard to wrap folks heads around enjoying the lovely breeze that graces the area. The reason we didn't opt for one of the Sian Ka'an houses was because I felt it would have been a little to far removed, as is I caught a lot of flak for saying the road into Soliman Bay was a road (it's totally a road). So nice house it was, AND my Mom is not a strong swimmer and I felt that the gentler water and good snorkeling would go far.

Over the course of the next year Malisa from Destination Scout, Pete and myself worked out all the minutiae of the wedding and we ended up doing a LOT on our own (in terms of making stuff). If anyone needs help making boarding pass invites I am your gal, or making day of the dead centerpiece skulls...the best laid plans always have a way of getting changed. This also is my Karma, but I think this went a lot better in the end then the skunk that showed up on my 30th birthday.

Our wedding week was October 22-30th and the honeymoon week was the 30-November 4th. I had known that it had been rainy on the Yucatan, so rainy it made world wide news about mudslides and flooding, I did have that in the back of my mind when we boarded the plane.  In hindsight starting the week with the wedding would have allowed all the plans to take place, but we had constructed it so that there was a slow build up to Friday. Pete and I were not sharing a room, it was going to be a spectacular and triumphant end, it would be brilliant!  And it was, just it took some doing.

On Saturday Malisa, Pete and I all arrived. Actually Pete and I got in about 5 hours before Malisa. We had quite the luggage...first of all we probably had 20lbs of acrylic skulls that were gifts and for decoration (centerpieces). We had 5" tall ones with flowers embedded in them and 3" ones that we hand painted all sorts of colors.

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On top of this we had $300 worth of lights, pool lights, outdoor lights, white Christmas lights, AND 4.5kg of gluten free flour for our caterer. Boy customs was fun. Actually it was fine. We were searched, I had receipts for everything and I wrote "No Para La Reventa" on EVERYTHING. I highly recommend that, that worked well.&nbsp

Then we went to Costco, spent a fortune and waited for Malisa in the airport parking lot.  It was a weird afternoon. Then we grabbed dinner in Playa Del Carmen. We had booked a night at Casa Ticul (http://www.casaticul.com/) which is a super cute boutique hotel in Playa. It is on 5th but where you can drive on it, so it isn't right in the middle of the drunken mess of Playa. We enjoyed our stay, but solidified the feeling that we're not overly in love with Playa. I live near 5 colleges, I get to see drunken stupidity pretty regularly, so when I'm on vacation I'd rather not see it. The hotel itself was great to us. The rooms were clean, comfortable, and the water had good pressure. They made us heart shaped pancakes in the morning, which only I could eat, but that was ok. They didn't know Pete couldn't have them.

That's it for Saturday. Sunday will be next!

jlooneyb
21st November 2011, 08:05 AM
Hi Umami,
I looked at your wedding blog and the pictures taken on a balcony with white tables. Is that in Vallodolid? WHat gorgeous photo's. How was that place?
Thanks,
Barb

IhopeIloveTulum
21st November 2011, 04:52 PM
Tracy,

What a beautiful and unique wedding! It looks like your special day was absolutely magical. Thanks for sharing it with us.

Umami
21st November 2011, 06:39 PM
Hi Barb,

Yes the pictures with the church/balcony/white tables was from the hotel in Valladolid. It is a really cute town with a large Spanish Colonial influence, lots of shopping and cafes. Our guests really liked that aspect. The hotel wasn't one I'd go back to, the most uncomfortable sheets EVER. It was especially hard going from our beautiful houses to a hotel that wasn't the same luxury level, but they worked and everyone was together.

I went to one restaurant outside of the hotel and it was fabulous and everyone also felt that way, so I think we'd like to spend a couple of planned days in the area. There is also a cenote right in the middle of town.

jlooneyb
21st November 2011, 08:51 PM
So the restaurant outside of the Hotel is the one with the balconies and it was good?
Thank you.

Umami
21st November 2011, 09:01 PM
So the restaurant outside of the Hotel is the one with the balconies and it was good?
Thank you.

We stayed at Maria de la Luz Hotel and that's where all the balcony pictures were taken. The cafe we all liked was at the corner of 42nd and Carretera Federal 180, so just kitty corner from the Church, BUT there were a bunch of cafes on the streets around the center square. There were also lots of museums that I didn't get a chance to go visit, but I do have a bunch of pictures from my guests to go through and can share them.

The restaurant at Maria de la Luz was fine, nothing special but not bad either. Now they didn't pour a good drink, but that's ok we had brought our own alcohol with us from the houses and they didn't say anything to us when we broke out all the tequila the first night we were displaced. We sat, smoked cigars and drank in relative peace.

jlooneyb
21st November 2011, 09:25 PM
Well the tequila bottle on the table is normal for Mexico city. When my husbands family get together and go out for dinner in Mexico City and really anywhere they go they place a big bottle in the middle of the table. It's usually Corralejo.

Umami
21st November 2011, 09:34 PM
Is Corralejo customary for your husband's family only for for Mexico City in general? We accidentally did a Don Julio flight, but in our larder we now have a bottle of El Cielo Diamonte (I think I have the name right), but we know relatively little about Tequila right now. We were concerned when we started about offending folks about providing our own bottles of tequila, but I think the tip at the end of the night for letting us enjoy our night helped :)

It is a really cute city, and I was told several times that people felt they were seeing Mexico rather than a beach. Having both beach days and a city day I think ended up being really good.

jlooneyb
21st November 2011, 09:48 PM
Corralejo is just one of many they like, but "Cabrito" is fantastic but we have not found it in the states or Tulum/Playa area. My husbands family bring it from Mexico City when the visit. If anyone reading this finds Cabrito can you let me know?
Another is "Corazon", a "dela-ca-see" he says.I wish I could say it with his accent!

Umami
26th November 2011, 12:04 PM
Sunday I was more calm than on Saturday. I was worried about finding all my folks at the airport, but in the end that was unfounded. Of course it was otherwise this would be a very different wedding/trip report. Sunday Pete and I got up, had a cute breakfast at Casa Ticul and then went to Walmart to pick up some fruit/vegies, water, and soda. It was very strange to go to Walmart....I sort of wish we hadn't, but it allowed me to pick up contact solution. We were basically accosted when we walked through the door with someone trying to sell us tours/trips.  Convincing them that we were all set and walking away was awkward.

Then we checked out of the hotel and made our way to Soliman Bay. The directions to Soliman Bay crack me up. Drive South on Highway 307 until you see the Oscar Y Lalo's sign, take the first Returno, and then take the first road on the right. It now says Hotel Jashita too, which helps. It is a dirt road as you find, well, everywhere...our guests when they arrived promptly took the opportunity to tell me that my definition of a road was a loose interpretation at best. It didn't help that one lass was pregnant and another gets motion sick.

For Pete and I though, we drove down to Soliman Bay and were there around 11am. The house Marcaribe told us to come back at 3pm. I really had just wanted to put stuff in the house and then if I had to go be scarce I would have, but alas my Spanish is next to nothing--I understood we had to come back at 3pm and that they suggested we go rest on the beach, get lunch etc, but I couldn't say "hey, I just want to put stuff inside." I'll get better. Anyway so we went to Hotel Jashita for lunch and a drink. We texted Malisa and in a couple of hours she and Margo had convinced the folks to let us inside the house, so we traipsed back down and proceeded to clean and set up stuff. This included the outdoor stereo that Malisa had with her, in hindsight we should have brought more music with us, ah well.

It is such a nice quiet area. You are steps from the beach and it really ends up YOUR beach, or in our case most of the beach between Villa Iguana and Casa Marcaribe became OUR beach.

I did get to take a tour of Villa Iguana before our guest arrived. It is FABULOUS. The caretakers are very proud of their house, they are happy to show it off, and they really take time to make the guests feel welcome. They were making towel animals for the beds with flowers and flower petals. They had beer and soda for the guests so they didn't have to run out to the store right away. They even were going to make a welcome dinner so they didn't have to worry about food (we had a welcome dinner for our guests, so this was moved to the next day). The house was STOCKED. All the glasses and dishes you would need. Coffee, water, etc. They had the option of food service for the week, which everyone said yes to do, so they had FOOD. It was all homemade and amazing. I know the guests talked about the immense quantities of avocados they were eating while there, even if guacamole wasn't their favorite, it was at Villa Iguana. I guess the first day everyone polished off everything they made, so for the rest of the meals they increased the available food so that wouldn't happen again. Now no one wanted MORE necessarily after they polished off everything, but Meynor wanted to make sure they didn't run out of food. The house was spotless too, they cleaned it every morning and by clean they cleaned the poop off the patio from the trees and birds. It all smelled wonderful and I think they had planted citronella plants outside. I was incredibly happy we chose Villa Iguana, my folks could not have felt more welcome. I also think all the family dinners helped everyone bond together too.  Here were a bunch of strangers for the most part, thrown together in a house, by the end of it they were talking reunion trip. That's fantastic.

Our house, didn't offer a welcome dinner which was fine since we had already conscripted folks for that task. It didn't have food service either, which was ok and really the house was great if you were familiar with the area and had a few people with rental cars. For all the newbies that went I don't necessarily think it was the easiest. Also it didn't have basics, like coffee, oil, butter, which meant that the very next day the bride and groom got in the car and went and bought coffee. If I had known there was NO coffee in the house I'd have gotten it at Walmart. Hindsight is 20/20 though, so if you opt for Marcaribe just know that you NEED to go to the store on your way down and get oil, coffee, toilet paper and the basic things. Also you will be buying your own groceries, which is fine, just a heads up. I had the foresight of buying papertowels and garbage bags, so we had those things. I also had bought solo cups, thankfully. We did not have the same level of glass/dishes stock that Villa Iguana had, which is fine, just very glad we had stuff with us. We did boot the house staff out so little things that were not cleaned to the level of Villa Iguana was really our fault. However the hot water wasn't turned on in half of the house, I assumed we didn't have hot water since there are places that don't heat the water, but Malisa and Margo took care of it and it was like magic. The beds were comfy, the temperature was perfect. We only used AC one night during the week and only because it was impressively humid.

Sunday was great in that we had Tulum Tacos! I wish I remembered the company's name, but they were fabulous. I think they had a stand just down the block from Hotel Posada 06 in Tulum and kitty corner from the Scotiabank in October 2010. If they were still there, well, those are the folks that made tacos for us. We had a pork taco and a chicken taco with chicharron on top. They also made ALL the corn tortillas and salsas. The Habenero Salsa was amazing, I would put that on a car tire and eat it. They brought an incredible amount of food, we ate an incredible amount, but holy moly. We had leftovers for days!  mmmmmmmm.....

It had been a long day for most of our guests so most folks went to bed early.  Saturday and Sunday are here: http://tpsweddingventure.blogspot.com/2011/11/wedding-week-saturday-and-sunday.html  Monday will be next!